You have got off on the wrong foot.
Movie clapper board from auction at Christies |
Somehow the 'magic words' didn't come to mind and that fluency at the start evaded you, the words just blurted out and were ineffective.
You had a false start.
Do you remember this Poster on London Underground from London 2012 Olympics ? |
Here are four false starts to avoid :-
1. Skydiver salesperson
The Skydiver parachutes in with those slip-of-the-tongue
openers such as ".. I was in the area so I thought I would drop in ..." , sometimes English folk say 'pop 'in'.
On a phone call the equivalent expression might be something
like " I'd like to have a little chat about..'
The danger of such blather is that it can convey a
disrespect for the client's time and conveys a lack of planning.
Yet on the other hand it is equally ineffective to go to the
other extreme.
2. The ‘ Uriah Heep ‘ “be I ever so humble “start
This merely comes across as rather creepy and falsely self
deprecating. You are to serve a client not to be servile. Similarly it gives
the client the wrong impression of the value of the topic of discussion.
3. The nervous
gabbler
Tearing off at break neck speed conveys nervousness. Key
sales benefits can often be blurted out and their power lost. It is best not to say “ engage before
speaking” as it confirms what is actually going on.
4. The ‘chat gap’
With some clients some small talk at the start may be
necessary to break the ice. The danger of too much waffle on the other hand can
irritate a client and soon been seen as wasting their time.
Should a client open with a story or joke avoid being pulled
into inadvertently capping their story, joke, holiday experience.
When two anglers entangle
I had it explained to me once as the situation when two fishermen
meet. The first fisherman says "Today I caught a fish this big."
Needles to say the other" Well yesterday I caught a fish even bigger" and so the capping and exaggeration
continues back and forth.
Much as many of us like to deny that we are at fault on this
– the danger is quite common.
We can all be bores! If you don’t think so – you probably don’t
know yourself very well
A cure for the chat gap
Do you remember the Olympic rings on Tower Bridge for London 2012 ? |
(Fortunately I don’t have to bother with this exercise myself
you understand because everybody in the world I meet is totally fascinated in what I have
to say about classical choral singing, my allotment and Chelsea FC (NOT!!!).... well you get the
point.
If you really don’t know ask your life partner, spouse a really close friend... They will give you
the answer often quicker than is comfortable for you to receive!
The point is not to eradicate your personality but to keep your passions under control , You do not want to stifle them for they are part of your personality but keep them in
check. If you know what your bore subject(s) are you are more like to keep them
in check.
Some typical bore subjects include:
- The awful traffic you had to endure to get to the client / or the trouble parking ...
- Sports
- Your own children ( client’s children however are really interesting to the client- your kids – only so so)
- Hobbies....
And yes even Business!!! Some salespeople can be very boring to clients about work
Do any of these spring from your lips from time to time. ?
The main cure is for better preparation of the call
After establishing rapport with a first time prospect,
try using this model to open the business discussion
Purpose Statement
Example:
“The purpose (or reason) for my call is to find out more about your company and
let you know more about us.”
Attention Getter
Example relevant to a HR manager: “Based on our
experience in this field we know that one of the major issues when buying
training is how to measure its effectiveness.” (fact)
U turn into question
Example: “Before I tell you how we go about this,
what I would like to do is ask you a
number of questions about the background, is that OK?”
First Question
"What type of programmes have you run in the past?”
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